Gardening Is Not My Forte
While my neighbors in California created cheerful gardens, my spider plants shriveled in plastic pots. When we moved to New Mexico, the last place one thinks of planting a garden, things changed.
Not long after we arrived, my beloved rescue dogs, Rudy and Dakota, passed away. I thought of planting a tree to commemorate them but my brown thumb history and lack of knowledge stood in my way. Then came COVID. Like many people, the pandemic propelled me to find purpose and meaning in new ways.
My husband, Ken and I try to live as sustainably as possible. As vegans, our lifestyle helps reduce our carbon footprint. But with climate change looming over us, I felt compelled to do more. Knowing the distress our pollinator populations are in, I tossed my poor track record aside and researched xeric landscaping to learn how to create a drought tolerant garden that also attracted birds, bees and butterflies.
Thirty-five home-made gopher baskets, two crabapple trees, and forty-three plants later, I was thrilled to see the beginnings of a garden mostly irrigated from rain barrels and gray water. But gardening had another surprise awaiting me. I discovered it’s good for your health.
5 Secret Health Benefits of Gardening
1. Goodbye to Grumpy–Much like a good therapy dog, gardening can decrease anxiety, stress, and help us feel less depressed. At first, the digging, weeding and watering felt labor intensive. But I was soon enjoying my morning and evening strolls through my plants, encouraging them to grow, and getting to know them like good friends. When hummingbirds visit my bright orange trumpet vine, I’m beyond thrilled.
2. Immunity Ally–Sunshine and Vitamin D go hand in hand. Not only is this nutrient vital for our immune system, but it also strengthens our bones, and can lower your risk of various cancers. And what better place to get a good dose of sun than a garden which thrives on sunshine too.
3. Longevity Builder–Do you want to live to be one hundred years old? Instead of going to the gym, many centenarians include gardening as part of their lifestyle. Digging holes, pulling weeds and carrying bags of compost can make you stronger and works out muscles you didn’t know you had. You’ll sleep like a dog too.
4. Brain Booster–Dementia becomes an unsettling concern as we age. Besides limiting sugar intake and eating a healthy plant-based diet, prevent your cognitive decline by tending to a garden. A 2006 study, tracking 2,800 people over the age of 60 for 16 years, concluded that gardening could lower the risk of dementia by 36%. Raking and hoeing does a brain good!
5. Purpose Powerhouse–Nurturing a seedling that grows into a thriving plant that in turn feeds hummingbirds, monarch butterflies, and honey bees is surprisingly satisfying. Not only am I contributing to the health of the planet but at sunset I absorb the rich colors of scarlet pentstemons and the violet stalks of Russian sage beside blue salvias- moments of pause that feel like a shower for the soul.
A Dog in the Garden
Less stress, stronger immunity, better cognitive health, a longer life-span and connecting to purpose are powerful benefits that gardening offers. But sharing a bond with a companion animal can also benefit us in similar ways.
Grace, my rescue dog, is also my co-gardener. She not only helps me dig holes, and lets me know where rodents are hiding so I can add a few coffee grounds to deter them, but watching her lounge under a tree reminds me that she too has blossomed over the short time we’ve been together. Her nourishment, much like the plants, has come from a steady dose of love, positive attention, and patience. As Grace thrives, Ken and I also benefit from increased laughter, more playfulness, and the unconditional love she offers us at every turn.
I think Rudy and Dakota would be happy to know their memory lives on amid the burnt orange penstemons, cheery Mexican hats, and the sweet scent of chocolate daisies. I often wonder if they’ve come back for a visit when I spot an unexpected hawk or roadrunner perched on the wooden arch leading into the garden.
When life challenges us, it helps to hit the pause button and turn to the wisdom of nature. With her abundant flora and magnificent animals, nature can be a true health and wellness ally – brown thumbs or not.
Stay Pawsitive,
💜 Carlyn MDO
PS: What one piece of wisdom have you discovered in nature?
Susan Clark says
I agree! Year 1 of the pandemic, my new veggie garden was a weak first effort. Undeterred, Year 2 has been a source of lettuces, herb and 10x the cherry tomatoes we had last year. All while keeping the Corgis company in the side yard.
Carlyn says
Excellent! That’s kind of my plan. Year one, I’ve put down the basic layout and have seen what grows well. Year two I’m going to fill in a couple of spots AND start planting some veggies. Shishito peppers, Jimmy nardello peppers and basil for sure!
Leanne says
“…moments of pause that feel like a shower for the soul.”
Such a beautiful choice of words!
Carlyn says
Oh thx so much Leanne! A writer always likes to hear when words connect with a reader. And it does feel like that. Seems like I always have a smile on my face when I’m strolling around in taking in the colors.
Katie Kohn says
Omg, 35 homemade gopher baskets! You should write how you refused help and are as stubborn as a mule when taking advice. 🙂
I think you should post photos so we can see what you’ve accomplished.
Carlyn says
Ha! You and Joe gave me great advice and I thought of you both so often as I gardened. Thx for the suggestion about posting photos. I think I might make a short video. Before and after. Our garden is nowhere near the magnitude of yours, but it’s a start and it’s made us so happy.
Dianne says
Thank you..I also see my dogs who have passed taking the shapes of Ravens..Comfortng
to me..Love my gardens although now as I age I find I am somewhat limited to as what I can do.
Carlyn says
That’s beautiful. I just read that ravens/crows have self-awareness. I imagine other animals do too though we are not aware of that yet. I find ravens fascinating. We too get a lot in our yard and I love to hear all of the different sounds they make. Thx for sharing, Dianne.
Genny says
Thank you for the beautiful inspirational works, Carlyn. I too find puttering in the garden good for my soul…and a good workout as well. I look forward to the time I have each week to work in my yard/garden. This time of year the work involves getting the garden ready for winter. Lots of leaf raking and cutting back perennials.
Carlyn says
Thx for your thoughts Genny. Every season brings something new. I am reading up about getting the garden ready for winter and hope to do some of that this weekend. I want to make sure everyone is happy while they are asleep.